Showing posts with label Happiness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Happiness. Show all posts

Thursday, May 8, 2025

Stressfree Mind

 

STRESS FREE MIND with breathing techniques

Pointers towards how to boost a stress-free mind

1.      ENERGY – To combat stress, we need more energy. Inhaling long deep breaths helps us to enhance our life energy levels. Filling up our lungs with maximum oxygen helps us to increase the functional capacity of our internal organs. Just like better blood circulation improves overall health, higher oxygen levels boosts our energy levels. Bhastrika is one powerful breathing technique to shake off nervousness and fill up with newfound energy and enthusiasm.

 

2.     FLEXIBILITY – When stress happens, because of our rigidness, we either break or fail without being flexible.  These breathing exercises allows us to be in flexible mode – ready to adapt to any situation, person or task. Our brain muscles are toned so that they function with agility and become shock absorbers to bear shattering news and we become more resilient to trauma or loss. Our emotions are directly connected to our breath. If we are not careful, the emotions can rule our life ending up with wrong decisions and a messy life. Instead, if we know how to deal with these emotions, we can be in charge of our life. For example, on a hill station we get a WOW moment opening our breath in full flow as we are mesmerized in awe of the scenic beauty. We can get back this wow moment anytime we take fuller deeper breaths. When we are sad, we usually have shallow breath and by using breathing techniques we can come out of sadness promptly. This is the power of breath which make us in charge of our emotions and enables us to be in response mode rather than in reaction mode. Our resilience power increases and we can forebear any bad situation staying calm and stable. This is the secret of becoming rock solid. Your will power escalates tremendously as you are in charge of your life.

 

3.     BALANCE – Our brain has two aspects, left connected with analytical part and right connected with emotional part. Both are important for our functioning. However in most of the cases, if we are not very alert or aware, our mind tends to be lopsided to either the emotional or analytical half. The right balance is required to have a clear perspective and hence our thought process will be steered in the right direction. Here also through Nadi shodhan Pranayam or Breath purification breathwork, we can activate both sides of the brain and maintain the right balance.

 

4.    RHYTHM – By default, our biological system has a rhythm as a part of Nature. As we move from our childhood to maturity, we are getting influenced by outside conditioning and our inner tendencies also interrupt the rhythm, resulting in abnormalities like stress and diseases. The natural rhythm is reflection of our body-mind synchronicity and breath is the link between our mind and body. Practicing breathing techniques helps us to align our mind body in one harmony.

 

5.     COMFORT ZONE – Most of the times, we get stressed when we deal with people, situations, or tasks that fall outside our comfort zone. We can get over this phobia or myth that comfort keeps us safe, once we know how many opportunities we are missing out on by not stepping out of our comfort zone. What is comfort… that which we are used to or we think it will provide pleasure and safety. But the fact is in long term, comfort only limits us and if we prepare ourself for discomfort we can face anything and everything. If we can embrace embarrassment, we conquer half the battle with our readiness, “Be it, so what!’’ Here also breathwork releases the tension and with new found relaxed rested mode, with upgraded energy levels, we move on to next level of growth crossing our comfort zone barriers. We learn new things, ready to bear more risk for a brighter future. We move on from no mind to YES mind.

 

6.    UNDERSTANDING NATURE OF MIND – One of the major reasons of stress is that we cannot let go of past pain, loss or regrets or anything negative. The nature of our mind is such that it clings on to negativity and doubts only positive thoughts. For instance, if we are praised by 10 people, we will be overwhelmed and can’t take the appreciation in full spirit, we shy away thinking that they are only praising us out of courtesy, we doubt good things. But when 1 person insults us, we are not able to dismiss it the same way we dismiss the praise. We will believe and react immediately.  The other propensity of our mind is to oscillate between past and future and hence we fail to focus on the present moment. Our mind is scattered all over and to bring it back to a one pointedness, breath can be instrumental.

   Once we are aware of the tendencies of our mind, we watch out not to fall in its trap. The mind plays tricky games and lures us into more easy tasks and instant results but with breathing techniques, our awareness improves. With breathwork we are in witness mode, separating ourselves from our mind. Our mind automatically gets quietened like a good obedient child as we are directing our mind as a master to follow a particular technique. When the chattering mind is silenced, it is automatically rested. It returns to a stable position, in the present moment. FLUSHING OUT TOXIC THOUGHTS – The last but not the least is mental hygiene. If we don’t know how to dispose of our toxic thougts, we are going to fall sick both mentally and physically. Breathwork helps us to flush out these negative emotions and thoughts through proper exhalation. Kapalbhati is such powerful breath technique of forceful exhalations from the naval area. Bhanwari is another way to clear the cobwebs of brain through nozzle of one pointed forceful hmming sound of a bee keeping all windows of your senses closed. The blocked up areas will open up with jerks from forceful breaths at every level of our body be in naval area, heart region or top of the head.  

 

We can bridge the gap between a stressed chaotic mind and a stable stress-free mind with mindfulness, following these breathing techniques.

Wednesday, April 23, 2025

Pathway to Subconscious mind and beyond

In today's world every body is aware of everything thanks to technological boom the way information flows beyond borders and time horizon. Still there are aspects which today's advancement have a little effect. Those are subtler aspects like mind, emotions, feelings. 

On the first instance it may appear of course, we can adhere to our feeling and emotion by various entertaining gadgets which caters to soothe our mind be it fun games or relaxing music or social media insta reels. What is concerning here, is when our mind patterns are getting deeper and deeper embedded in our  system without our knowledge to an extent that when it starts showing signs of distress or fails to function well, we are alarmed beyond imagination. Here comes the role of subconsious level where these patterns are placed and starts interrupting in our life. 

While staying mindful is quite challenging in this maddening world, being watchful about these patterns can be overwhelming to even think of. However, there is a respite though, once we know the power of our subconsious mind. The good news is that we can access it. 

 Our subconscious mind can be accessed through meditation - bringing the mind to rest. The various impressions our mind gets while going through difficult times especially have a deeper impact on our personality, the way we perceive or react or adopt may vary. Just like a wrinkled mind it ceases to perform effectively with so many creases and to smooth en it one can take the help of meditation as a tool to get rid of these impressions and help the mind get rid of conditioning. Just like aging process can be reversed with healthy lifestyle, likewise the conditioning can be reversed with breathing techiniques & meditation. The instant relief through releasing toxic thoughts is clear, calmer mind- more present and yes mind. Clarity happens with more decisive power and intuitiveness. Things get sorted out easier with a relaxed mind. 

Right from priority list to do's and don't will entirely be changed with new found peace of mind which is always in state of equilibrium, in the present moment. The present is a gift to us  as it opens up avenues to make our future. Past can be life learning lesson but the inclination of our mind is getting stuck in the past be it good or bad, both stops us being fully in the present moment. When we lack our full attention in the present moment, we loose our 100% capability to perform or deal with the situation. Rather than in response mode we rush to react and give the remote control of our emotions to outside factors which can trigger our emotions any time without our knowledge or preparation. It sounds dangerous being into victimhood mode rather in defence mode, right action at right time. Sometimes it is wiser not to act in some cases to save our own mind from draining our energy into unnecessary issues which can be avoided by simple act of no action. 

As we mentioned about subtler aspects, lets move on from reaching subconscious to where it leads further after reaching there. It opens up new dimension to our existence. By practice of meditation and breathing techniques, we witness real Self in its purest form far away from what we have been knowing ourselves till now. Right from our birth, conditioning of the mind gets started which is basic for survival. Like recognising, associating, learning..... in nutshell all what we hear, see and perceive from senses make us believe what we are. Eventually we get so attached to the image so built that we start believing that as our true identity leaving behind what we originally are. The quest to learn about Self only starts from a time either some crisis might have hit you which have shaken up your identity of what you believed yourself to be or at a time when you are fed up with the stagnation point where you have reached a saturation of everything perfect still you are striving for happiness. The awakening moment happens with overwhelming experience which can be painful and miserable only to be soaked in complete bliss. It is eminent- birth is painful like an egg breaks to give a life or seed germitates with breaking of outer shell. Likewise shedding off outer ego centric identity can be overbearing but once it is shaken off one can experience deep relief and real joy to find one's true Self beyond past  impressions and conditioning as true freedom is experienced in form of bliss. To be happy or find happiness one may need to do something or achieve but bliss is just being. It is as simple to being .... yet unattainable for those who may not even feel the need to be in bliss, oblivious of such a possiblity of ultimate peace while lost in their material world.

The very purpose of writing this is to refresh our belief system of what we think as correct can be verified from level of our core level where we rise up from our conditioned mind and start seeing things as it it without ulterior motives of hyped up dream goals set by the society or idealim. Instead if we are familiar with our Self in  purest form of what is our inner call or wisdom we can start living a life in our best version. 

 

Tuesday, December 10, 2024

Madhumita -with a joyful gaze

 Madhumita - the lady

with a twinkle in her eyes 

makes me wonder

if she is an Angel in disguise

 

She stands as a pillar of strength

to all those who need help

She has a golden heart 

to heal the world

in her charming ways

 

She is the mother of her child

instilling life with care and guide

To her parents, she is a doting daughter

always by their side 


A loving wife to her beloved's pride

She carries herself dignified

 

To a friend she is ever present

so much that one can confide 

 

An inspiring teacher imparting knowledge simplified

She trains and guides with such dedication & flair

Her students become her die hard fan

 

Above all she holds up high

the values of principle of life

She heals the world 

with a touch of care

 to adore and praise

for others to raise

She amazed me again and again

 as a ray of hope with a joyful gaze!



 



Friday, November 24, 2023

Sacred space

 Amidst the chaos of life

there flows serene music 

 only if we can pay close attention

 

Amidst turmoil far & wide

there is unbound sanctity

 only if we can strike the right balance

 

Things unfold at their own pace

only if we can foster patience to see the magic!


The wheel of time waits for none

It has its own playful rhythm 

See if you can catch the tune

diving into divine melody

 to tap onto infinite possibilities

waiting to be manifested 

at your wishful thoughts

with a pure heart and a clear mind


There is poise, there is grace

in silence of wisdom

What thunderous debate fails to solve

can be resolved amicably by a tender heart


Every soul carries a beautiful sacred space

around its essence

A thousand Universes embedded within 

only to emerge with playful swing 

in dreams abundant of  hope and peace 


A light of  tender dreams can spark lofty ideas

to chase for a glorified world 

where there is only bliss 

seeping through every particle of existence. 

 


Wednesday, November 8, 2023

আলো

 আলো 


প্রচন্ড তেজ সেই অগ্নিশিখার 

যেটা বিষ্ফোরিত হয়েছে বালুচর হতে 


আচ্ছাদিত পড়েছিল নিরালায় বঞ্চিত 

অবহেলায় অনর্থ নিরাশায় 


জীবন যাত্রার গোধূলিতে 

যখন অনুভূতির চরম সীমার আবির্ভাব 

উৎকৃষ্ট চমৎকার জীবন রেখায় 

প্রকাশ পেলো সুদীপ্ত আলো 


Monday, March 28, 2022

Marching forward

 Life is a journey where we gather only experiences

its us to decide whether we let which one  to enrich or diminish


I stumbled, I fumbled

battling storms of life

Aghast I lay beaten

at the merciless thrashes slayed


I learned to be brave

not to let ego enrage 

for every attention it clamored for

I pacified with embrace

 

I have always known deep inside

My Divine is always by my side

No matter I loose worldly games

My Master's trust is all I gain

 

I learn to be patient 

accepting what comes my way

I may have the choice

but at times I simply have to pay

with a price of sacrifice 

and a dash of  poise

no matter it may  jeopardize my plans

I surrender to a much  Higher plane 


Lamenting emotions often raise my fears

of loosing my ground of sanity

I brush aside the swollen tears  

and set a new twist to gear

all my energies marching forward

with full swing and cheer 

ushering new dreams to endeavor 

and mighty ambitions to bear!

 

 

 

 



Tuesday, February 22, 2022

परि हो तुम

 

 फूलो सा नाज़ुक हो तुम 

 चंचल शौख़  हसीना 

 खुशनुमा ज़िन्दगी जीती हो 

अपने ख़्वाबो  में उड़ना 

कई अंदाज़े बयां कर देती हो बेखुदी में 

दिल  खोल के रख देती हो 

प्यार का  पैग़ाम  पाके

 


हाँ परि हो तुम, परी हि रहना 

खुद पे इतराती हो 

तुम्हारा क्या कहना 

अपने नाज़ो अदाओं पे

गज़ब ढाती हो 

बेमिसाल लगती हो 

जब तुम गुनगुनाती हो 

हवा का झौंका बनके  झूम जाती हो 

फिर भी कभी कभी घबराके रूठ जाती हो 

प्यारी सी लड़की भूल जाती हो 

तुम्हें है जीना बुलंदियों के शिखर पे 

हर जलती अंगारों पे चलके 

तपके , निखरके 

फ़ौलाद की तरह डटके

आगे बढ़ते जाना है 

नज़ाकत छोड़ न देना 

यूँ कभी मुँह मोड़ न देना 

हँसते गाते गुज़रती है ज़िन्दगी 

बचपन के यादे अनमोल अलबेला!

सपनो की दुनिया से 

उड़ान तुम भरना 

देखो पँख उभर आते है 

यूँही हौंसले अफ़ज़ाई से ! 

 परि हो तुम, परी हि रहना 

खुद पे इतराती हो 

तुम्हारा क्या कहना !


 

Sunday, January 23, 2022

FRIENDSHIP

 Friendship with Mohini

My experience of Bliss

Mohini is a girl I was in awe right from the beginning. Say it her beauty, her elegance, her enigma in total personality even before I could get to know her . My first meeting was in a hospital where we were there for a medical check up clearance regarding our appointment in Government job. Coincidentally she joined the same lunch group I was in and that is how it all began-  our conversations, getting to know each other and then friendship which later tuned into spiritual connection. I think this was the strongest bond i share with her till now.

My nature hardly corresponded with her in light of her vivacious presence and enchanting smile. She could be the eye of contention wherever she would go. Her charisma was such that no body could ignore her, be it her outer charm or inner beauty. Such was my observation. There was of course no angst of envy for the very reason I started admiring her at the core. Often I used to wonder what can be the reason for me to place her qualities worth catching my eyes and silently absorb the beauty. Being Artistic, I could relate my deep observation of noticing every minute details which has to do with beauty and class. Being spiritual I am blessed to forego the shortcomings i may encounter for myself seeing someone better than me. In fact it always enhanced my own beauty of having that vision of beauty around. 

The significant time I attribute which have enriched my respect for this friendship is I found her reaching out to me in need, her shoulder to rely, and a space to rest that everything is going to be ok without any questioning or enforcement. The healing effect of her love reached  me so deep that it was beyond words for me to ever convey my gratitude for having such angels around me. Better said than not is the idea where today I am sharing in words. In between there were moments of misunderstanding, doubts, gaps of miscommunication or no communication at all, but having all these, our friendship still flourished. And it never stopped flourishing. Once we realize how valuable some gifts in our life, we are watchful not to loose it or at least preserve the memories as a treasure. It is true that beauty does not stay forever, but inner beauty is something which never fades. In fact today I can be sure that her radiance of purity was the vibration I could catch beyond any logic to reason. I am blessed to have you in my life as a friend Mohini.

Saturday, May 22, 2021

আবোল তাবোল

             সম্প্রতি এক জুটির  চূড়ান্ত খ্যাতি হয়েছে । আপনারা ও শুনে থাকবেন। কি বললেন ? শোনেন নি? কি কথা? তাহলে যাওয়া যাক হীরক রাজার দেশে । 

        সে  ছিল এক বিরাট রাজ্য। একদিন সে রাজ্যে একটা লেংচা চোর এসে ঢুঁকে পড়লো। সে এক কিম্ভুত কিমাকার ব্যাপার। কারুর বোঝার ঠাঁই নেই সে চোর রোজ রাতের অন্ধকারে কিভাবে এতো গুলি বাড়ি তে চুরি করতে পারে! সে কি আর ছিচকে চোর? বলাই বাহুল্য! তবে ডাকাতি করার তার জো নেই। চারিদিকে চোরের হুলুস্থুলু পড়ে গেলো ! প্রায়ই শোনা যায় অমুক বাড়িতে কি না এতো টাকা সম্পত্তি চুরি গেছে, বলতে বলতে রাজার কানে গেলো সেই কথা! এবার রাজ্যের খাজানা চোরের নজর পড়তে আর দেরি নেই ভেবে  , রাজা হেস্ত নেস্ত হয়ে হকুমনামা জারি করলো -" চোরকে হেনস্ত করার জন্য এক রাশি পুরস্কার দেওয়া হবে। "

        এদিকে আবোল আর তার জমজ ভাই তাবোল  এর মাথায় চোরকে শায়েস্তা করার জন্য ফষ্টি নষ্টি চলছে। এরা দুজনেই একদম ই সাধারণ পর্যা র  মানুষ নয় -  কারণ এদের গত কিছু বছর যাবৎ বেশ সুনাম হয়েছে ।  ইদানিং নিত্তান্ত পেটের  দায়ে এরা খুচরো গোয়েন্দা গিরি করে বেড়ায়।  এই ধরুন..... কেউ কারুর নালিশ করলে, এরা তার ওপর নজর রাখবে তারপর টুক করে তাদের সব গন্ডগোল গুলো পারা প্রতিবেশীদের সামনে ফাঁস করে দিয়ে গোল হয়ে যাবে। আসামি এমন পেদানি খায় তারপর আর সে কোনো মন্দ ব্যাপারে ও জড়াতে যায় না।    

      এইবার রাজ্য পুরস্কারের লোভ আর সামলাতে পারলো না..... এই চোরটা কে এমন কেরামতি দেখাতে হবে যে তার চোট্টামি বেরিয়ে যাবে।  আবোল পিলে চমকানোর মতন তাবলের ঘাড়ে হুমড়ি খেয়ে  বেশ জোর গলাতেই বলে উঠলো - "এই বার মজা আসবে" তাবোল অমনি তাবলের  গলায় হাত ঝুলিয়ে হেলতে দুলতে বেশ ছন্দের মতন গলা মিলালো -

    "অবশেষে ডাক পড়লো 

চোরের ফন্দি এবার ফুরোলো 

আমরা নই যে ক্যাবলা  কেবল 

ওই আর ওয়ান এন্ড ওনলি 

আবোল তাবোল!"

 

 

Thursday, August 20, 2020

My Soul Sister

My Soul sister


 We grew up just like twins

Our face resembled though in height she wins

Her flair in Art was so fantastic;

it would inspire me to wish how I could draw at least

While she never cared how much I admired-

Secretly I started following her, became her fan- undeclared!

Little did she know how much I idolized her

For she was carefree kind yet not a girl next-door,

She could make wonders whatever she chose

Be it dancing, be it studies, be it sports or be it making buddies

My only friend was my sister and her friends befriended me rather

Lucky I felt as I was always protected

With warmth and affection, as  an youngster they cared

I had no voice of my own, I followed what was told

My sister was my role model , she stood tall -always my Hero

She was a trend setter, I could not have her better

Then there was a time we have to part ways

Our individual journeys were not meant together

As Life progressed - I got my own partner whom I thought could replace her now

For he became my greatest confidant, a position I always cherished with her before

Life has its ups and downs and hence I got her back once again

Now she is a changed person, her life struggles has matured her before age

I marvel how she becomes everyone’s favorite

not just with her charm but with her grace

 I am awe struck at the depth of her understanding,

Her dignified composure, her life saving principles

Her wisdom is now her beauty, her love is her face

Her compassion is her persona; her elegance is her grace!